tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3325010092808397386.post9111021208406116445..comments2023-09-29T10:12:14.060-04:00Comments on Urban Roguery: Football and fidelity.Roguehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02645124165599230491noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3325010092808397386.post-61543103953060682892009-02-10T10:39:00.000-05:002009-02-10T10:39:00.000-05:00What a fabulous, enviable position you're in, Alic...What a fabulous, enviable position you're in, Alice. I'm completely confident that your man is one lucky, happy boy.<BR/><BR/>I smirk to myself as I ponder what some of those adventures of yours may have included. ;)<BR/><BR/>I'm pleased that you've been stopping by here. Very cool.Roguehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02645124165599230491noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3325010092808397386.post-38383961214574270292009-02-09T18:58:00.000-05:002009-02-09T18:58:00.000-05:00I've been married to the same man for ten years an...I've been married to the same man for ten years and we have always been expressly polyamorous. So we have commitment as well as adventure. It seems to work for us, he likes to hear about my adventures. But I must say I can conceive of the possibility of a mutual attraction and passion so deep that it could inspire one to simply stop looking. I just don't think it happens very often and I have only so much as glimpsed such a feeling in my time. And similarly to what you say, if he were going to fulfill all of my needs in one person, man, would he would have to be remarkable!Lee Morganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10045165717518868527noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3325010092808397386.post-85144849560495913312009-02-08T18:17:00.000-05:002009-02-08T18:17:00.000-05:00Change, adaptation, imagination, playfulness. Abs...Change, adaptation, imagination, playfulness. Absolutely.<BR/><BR/>Perhaps I've become myopic. It's been so many years since I've known a partner who <I>sought monogamy herself</I>, that perhaps I've simply adapted to other paradigms.<BR/><BR/>Sounds unusual, doesn't it? Isn't it typically the boys who seem monogamy-phobic, commitment-challenged? A funny world we live in.<BR/><BR/>Should the Fates introduce me to a woman who truly, fully, completely met my needs (sexual and otherwise), and vice versa... yes, I could definitely get used to the idea of that kind of stability. <BR/><BR/>But damn. Her imagination would have to be <I>deeeep</I>. :)Roguehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02645124165599230491noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3325010092808397386.post-31385228614542719052009-02-08T10:47:00.000-05:002009-02-08T10:47:00.000-05:00I believe that it could indeed be preferable. Ther...I believe that it could indeed be preferable. <BR/><BR/>There are the perfect and rare chemical combinations. Phenomena, though they may be.<BR/><BR/>Others who are successful in monogamy are so aware of what they both need to recognize and adapt. Thereby keeping the waters flowing. <BR/><BR/>Either way, change is the key. Or adaptation.Not-so Virtuous Vivianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17701507536395216215noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3325010092808397386.post-24899229205265147832009-02-02T19:32:00.000-05:002009-02-02T19:32:00.000-05:00Makes sense, sure. What are your thoughts on the n...Makes sense, sure. What are your thoughts on the natue of monogamy and nonmonogamy? Would you agree that, if it were fully satisfying, monogamy could be preferable to alternatives?Roguehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02645124165599230491noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3325010092808397386.post-68839118321360723022009-02-02T10:39:00.000-05:002009-02-02T10:39:00.000-05:00I'm all for the censorship of AM ads. Of course, t...I'm all for the censorship of AM ads. Of course, this is entirely self-serving. The more popular they are, the more likely it is that my husband becomes aware of the site...and maybe it plants a little seed of doubt in his mind...Ms. Inconspicuoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07182712969995977009noreply@blogger.com